Sober Living Quotes
"I have come to believe that hard times are not just meaningless suffering and that something good might turn up at any moment. That's a big change for someone who used to come to in the morning feeling sentenced to another day of life. When I wake up today, there are lots of possibilities. I can hardly wait to see what's going to happen next."
– Anonymous
"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest"
– Confucius
"There is an island of opportunity in the middle of every difficulty."
– Anonymous
"All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them."
– Galileo Galilei
"Humility is the foundation of all the other virtues hence, in the soul in which this virtue does not exist there cannot be any other virtue except in mere appearance."
– Saint Augustine
"...one of the primary differences between alcoholics and nonalcoholics is that nonalcoholics change their behavior to meet their goals and alcoholics change their goals to meet their behaviors."
– Anonymous
"We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them."
– Albert Einstein
"We can't have full knowledge all at once. We must start by believing; then afterwards we may be led on to master the evidence for ourselves."
– Thomas Aquinas
"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude."
– Denis Waitley
"God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other."
– Reinhold Niebuhr
"I've been benefited from a dictionary definition I found that reads: "Rationalization is giving a socially acceptable reason for socially unacceptable behavior, and socially unacceptable behavior is a form of insanity."
– Anonymous
"Strength of mind rests in sobriety; for this keeps your reason unclouded by passion."
– Pythagoras
"The main reason I go to AA meetings is because I’m stark-raving sober."
– John S.
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
– Buddha
"From experience, I've realized that I cannot go back and make a brand-new start. But through A.A., I can start from now and make a brand-new end."
– Anonymous
"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
– Albert Einstein
"We feel the way we feel because we think the way we think. If we don’t like the way we feel then we must change the way we think."
– Anonymous
"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
– Buddha
"To be vital, faith must be accompanied by self sacrifice and unselfish, constructive action.."
– Anonymous
"Faith is a living, daring confidence in God's grace, so sure and certain that a man could stake his life on it a thousand times."
– Martin Luther
"That deep emotional conviction of the presence of a superior reasoning power, which is revealed in the incomprehensible universe, forms my idea of God."
– Albert Einstein
"Wisdom, compassion, and courage are the three universally recognized moral qualities of men."
– Confucius
"To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it."
– Confucius
"When I stopped living in the problem and began living in the answer, the problem went away."
– Anonymous
"To this day, I am amazed at how many of my problems - most of which had nothing to do with drinking, I believed - have become manageable or have simply disappeared since I quit drinking."
– Anonymous
"We should be sensible, tactful, considerate and humble without being servile or scraping. As God's people we stand on our feet; we don't crawl before anyone."
– Anonymous
"We cannot subscribe to the belief that this life is a vale of tears, though it once was just that for many of us. But it is clear that we make our own misery."
– Anonymous
"In all these strivings, so many of them well-intentioned, our crippling handicap had been our lack of humility. We had lacked the perspective to see that character-building and spiritual values had to come first, and that material satisfactions were not the purpose of living."
– Anonymous
"Definition of an alcoholic is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex."
– Anonymous
"We feel the way we feel because we think the way we think. If we want to change the way we feel we must change the way we think."
– Wilbur
Sober Links for Recovery
These links are organizations that promote AA, CA, NA, OA, HA, GA, SA, and other 12 step based recovery.
- AA (alcoholics anonymous) World Services.
- AA Grapevine.
- Al-Anon Family Groups.
- STL Central Services.
- Tri-County Intergroup.
- Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA).
- 24 Hours A Day.
- Daily Reflections.
- Touchstones (men's).
- Each Day a New Beginning (women's).
- CA (cocaine anonymous)World Services.
- NA (narcotics anonymous)World Services.
- OA (overeaters anonymous)World Services.
- GA (gamblers anonymous) World Services.
- HA (heroin anonymous) World Services.
- SA (sexaholics anonymous)St. Louis.
These links are aftercare suggestions that promote recovery aftercare health.
- Alcohol Consumption During Covid.
- What Alcoholics Anonymous, and my sponsor say about aftercare.
- Johns Hopkins Recognizes Caffeine Withdrawal Disorder.
- The Mayo Clinic: 10 Ways to Quit Smoking.
- The Mayo Clinic: Avoid dangers of Second-Hand Smoke in the Air.
- Tools, Tips, & Tricks to Help You Quit Smoking.
- The Link Between Sweets and Addiction. Dealing with Sugar and Sobriety.
- Working Out Your Recovery: The Importance of Fitness for Recovering Addicts.
- Eating Dissorders: Orthorexia, Excessive Exercise, & Nutrition.
- Eating Dissorders: Causes, Diagnosis, & Treatment For Excessive Exercise.
- Depression, Anger, and Addiction: The Role of Emotions in Recovery and Treatment.
- 24 Hours A Day.
- Daily Reflections.
- Touchstones (men's).
- Each Day a New Beginning (women's).
These links are websites that can be useful to those in recovery and their families.
- Sober-Today.Org (our sister-site).
- The Lindell Club.
- Start Here St. Louis (resource site).
- Mental Health America (east Missouri support group directory).
- NCADA (St. Louis addiction resource site).
- St. Louis Empowerment Center (depression and bipolar resource site).
- Transitional and Sober Housing (St. Louis directory).
- The 212 Club (not GA friendly).
- Supporting vs Enabling (Granite Recovery Centers).
- National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism.
- RecoveryIsland.Com (operated by June L.)
These are links to the most common addiction recovery facilities throughout the metropolitan St. Louis area.
- CenterPoint.
- Pacific Hills.
- Bridgeway.
- Harris House.
- Columbia VA Center.
- Preferred Family Health.
- Native Americam Recovery.
- COMTREA Community Treatment.
- Alcohol.Org Resource.
- ProjectKnow Resource.
These are links to websites that sell recovery coins, jewelry, apparel, and gifts online.
- Recovery Coins, Jewelry, Books and Gifts.
- My 12 Step Store.
- Recovery World.
- Hazelden Publishing.
- Sober Medallions.
- Recovery Emporium.
- Northwest Territorial Mint.
- Choices Books and Gifts.
- Recovery Accents.
- Recovery Apparel.
These are links to authored writings that cover prayers, step guidance, and other opinionated text.
- The Four Absolutes.
- Common thoughts on recovery aftercare.
- Personal thoughts on Humility.
- Personal thoughts on the 1st Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 2nd Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 3rd Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 4th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 5th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 6th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 7th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 8th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 9th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 10th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 11th Step.
- Personal thoughts on the 12th Step.